I chose D. After a long time of T reassuring me that I wasn't going to lose him. After T telling me that if D and I don't work out...I can still potentially have a shot with him...his feelings weren't going to fade any time soon. Mutually it was decided that we were doing what was best by not being together. Long distance blows and that would put strain on a friendship let alone a relationship.

I hope I made the right decision.